Monday, December 14, 2009

The Long Winter's Night

Dear me. And it isn't even winter yet. Well, I can honestly say I have reached a new procrastination high ... or low, as the case may be.

I write to avoid blogging. Amazing. Never thought I would find a task more challenging than creating a novel.


In Cheney news, for those who have followed previous posts ...

  • The meeting I referred to has come gone and, as he promised, God has graciously delivered us.
  • Eric is now sole owner of his own (new) manufacturing company, walking step by step in the vision entrusted to him. Our theme verse these days: "Thus says the Lord, your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel; 'I am the Lord your God, who teaches you to profit, who leads you in the way you should go.'" Isaiah 48:17
  • Camille just made her first stage debut. She sang in the choir and played the part of Mary in the church Christmas play. No speaking parts, but she was thrilled all the same. She sang with all her heart and made a lovely Mary. I'd include a picture here, but our fully-charged camera batteries died moments after Eric focused in for a snapshot. Guess what we're giving each other for Christmas? Yep. Any suggestions for something affordable and really, really easy to use?
  • I am about a fourth of the way through my novel, give or take. Getting to know my characters, discovering plot twists, and enjoying the fruit of abiding in the Lord through being a part of the work he called me to. It's really cool how the latter is becoming the best part.

And there's that wonderful thing that happens when one writes. Just like that, all kinds of reflections emerge from the soggy depths of my soul. Don't worry. I won't go on and on here. I'll save them so I have something to say the next time.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Author Interview and Free Book Drawing!

Readers, forgot to mention ... leave a post and you'll be entered in a drawing for a free book! This is definitely one you want on your bookshelves!

To me, Christina Berry is friend, writing colleague, inspiration and treasure. We met for the first time six years ago at a Starbucks coffee shop. I was pregnant with my daughter. Christina was enjoying a newly-restored marriage. Much has changed in our lives from that "divine appointment" to this day. Through it all, I have been blessed to watch Christina grow as woman and writer into the calling the Lord has given her.


Thanks for visiting my blog, Christina. Let's talk about your debut novel, The Familiar Stranger. I know it is a fast read. Tight writing brimming with interesting characters who struggle with real life problems.
Tell us about it.
The Familiar Stranger is about a couple going through a really rough patch in their marriage. When an accident incapacitates the husband, their relationship must be redefined. Which would be a lot easier to do if BIG secrets from his past didn’t raise their ugly heads. Despite the upheaval, the choices they make involving forgiveness and trust might allow a new beginning.
Or … they might not.
You can see the back cover copy and what other authors have said about The Familiar Stranger by going to http://www.christinaberry.net/books.aspx

Sounds intriguing. How did you come up with the story?
In the summer of 2006, two stories appeared in the newspaper. One was a huge, national story; the other a smaller, local-interest item. I wondered what it might look like if those two stories conceived a child. Boom! I had the entire plot for The Familiar Stranger. It will be interesting to see if readers can figure out which stories inspired the book.

Hmm. Don't worry, no hints here. Let's talk about your writing process. What kind of planning goes into it?
My previous writing has been heavily plotted and I’ve known almost everything about the characters before diving into the story. Writing with a co-author, Mom and I both need to know exactly how a character looked and his or her history. We wrote out each scene’s main plot point and point of view character on index cards and posted them on a large corkboard. We also found catalogue models that looked like our characters, made collages of the pictures, and slipped our character interview in the back of the plastic sleeves.

With The Familiar Stranger, the first scene came to me like a movie. Once the first chapter was written, I took a few hours to write down how I saw the story progressing. Then I numbered each main point and called it a chapter. All told, I had just over one page of plotting. To keep everything straight, I made notes about the characters as I went along. A very different experience to write by the seat of my pants, but I’m working through my current book in the same way.

Based on the great reviews for The Familiar Stranger, I would guess that method works well for you. What about takeaway value? What do you hope readers receive after reading your novel?
The recent changes in my life—losing my husband, facing finding a “real” job, selling my home—have done nothing but solidify what I hope to be the theme of the book and my life: Live Transparently—Forgive Extravagantly. If reading The Familiar Stranger makes even one man or woman be more honest with his or her spouse or delve into trust issues in a healthy way, I’ll consider it a success. Maybe there’s a hurting heart that can find a new path to forgiveness because of the story.

Knowing, then, that the story mirrors some of your own experience, what was the most difficult part to write?
I was in the middle of revisions when my marriage fell apart. God orchestrated it so that I was beefing up a "struggle with forgiveness" scene in those first few weeks of singleness. While aspects of that were hard to deal with, the very words I thought would help someone else ministered to me.

It's a beautiful picture of how He works all things together for good, though the things themselves may not be so good. How has the writing journey changed your Christian walk?
I see writing as one of the tools He uses to form me into His image—a tool to teach me patience, self-control, determination, reliance on Him, and other life lessons. I also see writing as a gift that brings me hope, fulfillment, and purpose when the rest of life is not so nice. The journey has sharpened me, yet also softened me.

So how long have you been on this journey? How many years from its inception to publication?
My mother, Sherrie Ashcraft, and I began writing in the summer of ’99. We figured the accountability of having a co-writer would make us actually do what we’d always dreamed of but never put action to. It took a long road of learning how much we didn’t know, tons of re-writing, brooding over rejections, making connections, pitching at conferences, and directional prayer to make our writing salable.

In the summer of 2007, when Mom was busy caring for her dying mother-in-law, I got the itch of a new story idea. Undiscovered was written by February 2008, edited by June, won second place in the ACFW Genesis Contemporary category, and was renamed The Familiar Stranger and contracted by Moody Publishers in October.

One decade from naïve first scribbles to debut novel!

Congratulations! Honestly, it gives me hope. Tell us five things you love about writing.
1) Emptying my brain. Quieter with the voices out.
2) Months later, rereading what was drivel when I wrote it, but somehow it's become beautiful.
3) Being with other writers, like my awesome critique group.
4) Co-laboring with Christ in the creative process.
5) Being paid money for things I make up.

Five things you wish you knew about writing way back in the beginning.
1) Starting (sitting down, opening the doc, and typing the first word) is at LEAST 90% of the battle.
2) I wish I knew how little actually I knew then. I would have started going to conferences and reading craft books sooner.
3) God knows exactly when and where you will be published or not published.
4) Each rejection is one step closer to acceptance.
5) It's okay to move on from your first project. This means only that you're learning; not that you've failed.

Do you have any other advice for writers?
~Read craft books (I have a list of my favorites on the sidebar of my blog http://www.authorchristinaberry.blogspot.com/)
~Write consistently
~Join a critique group
~Attend writing conferences~By open to criticism. One always has room to grow!

How can readers purchase your book?

It's been an honor having you, Christina, and a blessing walking this journey with you.
Godspeed and keep writing!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

What's that Buzzing Sound?

Our lives hum with an intensity I haven't felt since our first year of marriage. Back then, my husband was working fulltime for another company and building his manufacturing business. I was teaching ninth graders for the first time and commuting 45 minutes each way every day. We ran, it seemed, from home to work and back home again for more work. In May of that year, I remember walking around our neighborhood, fulfilled and maybe a little tired, rejoicing in our happy marriage.

Now, dismantling one life and trying to rebuild a new one, the crucible comes not so much from incessant busyness but from answering the question, "What's next?" An upcoming meeting (that I both anticipate and dread), will give us insight and finally close the door on my husband's former business. But in the meantime ...?

David Wilkerson, the preacher who was called to minister in inner city New York, writes, "We learn God's faithfulness by answering our calling to stay in fellowship with Jesus."

How do we stay in fellowship? Through prayer and reading the Word and communing with others, of course, but also through walking the path he's laid for us, whether it's corraling a class of miscreats or making cool stuff or writing a story.

"Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, "This is the way; walk in it." (Isaiah 30:21)

It occurred to me this morning that as we move farther down the path, we must leave behind the loss of what was or of what might have been, even a dream carried since childhood.

Perhaps the Lord brings us to these places in order to establish his dream for us. I come back, over and over, to that much-quoted and beloved verse from Jeremiah: "For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you, and not to harm you, to bring you a future and a hope." (Jer. 29:11)

Ten years later, do I still rejoice? Yes. And not just in my happy marriage, but in the foundational work the Lord is doing to keep it that way.

Now, I'm off to write Chapter 12.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Put the Spurs to It!

No, I'm not referring to my own butt, though maybe I should be. I still have a chapter to write today. But first, the spurring ...

"Continue to spur one another on to love and good works." It's the theme verse for my critique group, a fantastic group of gals who gather, about once a month, to point out what works and what doesn't work in each other's writing.

But it's also so much more. The dramas we witness are not just in our stories. We pray together, emote together, and walk together through some real life stuff that, at times, makes our character's lives seem rather boring. We also laugh together. A lot.

Writing is hard, lonely work. The solidarity and encouragement of a critique group is a beautiful thing. If you're a writer and you don't have a team of your own, I spur you on to find one.

Gigi Rosenthal gives a good picture of what she looks for in a constructive critique group at http://www.writersdigest.com/article/how-to-choose-a-critique-club/. For the method-to-the-madness, see Allen Cox's http://www.ehow.com/how_2091080_start-writers-critique-group.html. We spend a great deal more on each other's writing the five-minute overview he mentions, but each group will find its own personality.

In the interest of spurring-on, here's my team, the Redeemed Writer's Critique Group.

Christina Berry http://authorchristinaberry.blogspot.com/
Recently released her first novel, The Familiar Stranger, to rave reviews. She'll be stopping in here on her blog tour next month.

Kristen Johnson http://adventuresofhistorygirl.blogspot.com/
The youngest member of our group, but by no means the least. She writes historical fiction ... "grift," "clink," and "tares." Can you guess her era?

Sherrie Ashcraft http://www.sherrieashcraft.blogspot.com/
She co-wrote a novel with her daughter, Christina. It's sitting on a very-interested editor's desk as we speak. A funny lady with a gift for devotional-style writing. Read her blog and see.

Angella Foret Diehl http://angellaforet.com/
Oregonian writer, teacher, speaker, webmaster, novelist. I could go on and on ...

Debbie McMillan Blog under construction.
Debbie and I were the founding members of this God-inspired group that has grown and changed so much the past seven years. She is working on a series of young adult fiction set in the Deaf culture.

Keep writing, ladies. The journey has only just begun.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow ...

Creeps in this petty pace from day to day ...

Alack and alas! Apparently, blogging is yet one more thing to procrastinate. "I'll get to that ... tomorrow. " What's that old saying about tomorrow never arriving? hmmm ...

In happy news, our wonderful five-year-old has been chosen by her Kindergarten teacher to be the one representative from her class for the school government. Needless to say, her daddy and I are so proud.

And I have a detailed character sketch, two new scenes, and some light on the path for my story's direction. Originally, the idea came to me as a father-daughter story, with the father as the main-point-of-view protagonist. At a writer's conference this summer, I had wonderful feedback from agents and a few editors, but the general consensus: women read the great majority of fiction, and women want to read about women. So I fretted and picked and poked and tried, so hard, to turn it into the female protagonist's story (the romantic counterpart, not the daughter). After all, the professionals said, women want to read about women.

Then I went to a retreat with the wonderful women of Gig Harbor's Chapel Hill Presbyterian Church (shout out to those amazing, gracious ladies and my dear friend who gave me her spot), and the Lord spoke right to my heart. "Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted about many things ..."

You remember that story. Mary sat at Jesus's feet and basked in his presence while Martha bustled about the kitchen, cooking up a feast. When she complained to Jesus about Mary's lack of help, Jesus gave her that word of correction--"You are worried and bothered by so many things; but only a few things are necessary, really only one, for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her." Luke 10: 41-42.

Writing, for me, is co-laboring with the Lord, sitting at his feet, learning from him. It is a walk of faith. I was so distracted by whether or not the story the Lord laid on my heart was marketable, that I couldn't make any headway with it. Finally, I gave up and went back to my original version with my male protagonist, and the details are falling into place. Marketable or not, it's the story I have to write.

What about you? Is the Lord leading you in a way that seems "counter-culture," yet is the only path that gives you peace and joy? Trust him. Remember, it's more about the journey than the destination.

Monday, September 21, 2009

Starting Over ... Again

Seems to be a common theme in our lives these days. Often, we work for years at something that doesn't quite "make it." My first novel. My husband's first manufacturing business. All that invested energy and time and sweaty work (husband owns the "sweaty work" part). All the dredging deep for rich characterization and resonating truths that readers will stand up and proclaim from rooftops! (Bear with me. A writer is nothing if not dramatic.)

All of that ... wasted? Not by a long shot. Because, as this blog proclaims, and I believe with all my heart (most days, anway), the journey is the thing that matters. The tool God uses to shape and hone and refine and lay a foundation of strength for the path we're called to walk. His strength, specifically.


Chronicles 15:7: "But you, be strong and do not lose courage, for there is reward for your work." And in Hebrews 12:1 Paul reminds us, "... let us run with endurance (patience) the race that is set before us."

Certainly, it is good to have a end to journey toward, whether it is paying off a new machine or completing a book or finishing your first blog post! Step by step, we'll get there, knowing we serve a faithful King who leads us ... patiently.

Thanks for stopping by. Come back often and share the journey with me!